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Flat Headstones vs Upright Headstones: How to Choose

MAY 20, 2024

When families start shopping for a headstone, one of the first decisions they face is also one of the most significant: flat or upright? Both are beautiful, dignified choices — but they're quite different in appearance, cost, and practical considerations.

Here's a side-by-side look at both options to help you make the right call.

01. The Visual Difference: The most obvious difference is how they look in the cemetery. Upright headstones stand vertically, often 18 to 36 inches tall or more. They're highly visible from a distance and create the classic cemetery silhouette most people picture. Flat markers lie at or near ground level, flush with the lawn. They're more subtle in the landscape but can be just as beautiful and meaningful up close.
02. Cemetery Rules: This Decides It for Many Families: Many cemeteries — particularly memorial parks (lawn cemeteries) built after the 1940s — allow only flat markers. This policy simplifies maintenance by allowing mowers to pass over the entire property without navigating around upright monuments.

Traditional older cemeteries typically allow upright headstones, and some require them. Religious cemeteries and national veterans' cemeteries each have their own specific rules.

The single most important thing to do before making this decision: call the cemetery and ask what they allow. This may remove the choice entirely.

05. Comparing the Two: Key Factors:
06. Cost: Flat markers are generally less expensive. A quality granite flat marker starts around $200 to $500 for a simple design; larger flat markers or those with detailed engravings run $500 to $2,000. Upright headstones typically start around $2,000 for a standard single monument and go up from there.
07. Personalization and Design Space: Upright headstones offer more surface area — especially on larger monuments — which means more room for artwork, portraits, longer epitaphs, and elaborate engravings. Flat markers have a smaller engraving surface but can still carry photos, artwork, and meaningful inscriptions. They just have less space to work with.
08. Visibility: Upright headstones are visible from across the cemetery, making them easier to find. Flat markers require visitors to walk among the graves to locate one — which can be a consideration for families with elderly or mobility-limited members.
09. Maintenance: Flat markers are lower maintenance in some ways — there's nothing to tip or sink over time. However, because they sit at or near ground level, they can collect debris, become overgrown with grass edges, or be harder to clean thoroughly.

Upright headstones are easier to clean and inspect visually. However, their foundations can settle over many decades, and very large monuments may require occasional re-leveling.

011. Durability: Both granite flat markers and upright headstones are extremely durable when made from quality granite. Neither has a significant advantage in terms of material longevity — both will last well over a century with basic care.
012. When to Choose a Flat Marker: Consider a flat marker when: the cemetery requires it; budget is a primary consideration; you prefer a more understated, peaceful aesthetic; or the person being honored specifically expressed that preference.
013. When to Choose an Upright Headstone: Choose an upright monument when: the cemetery permits it and you want maximum visibility; you want a larger canvas for artwork, portraits, or a longer inscription; you're honoring someone who lived a large, visible life and want the memorial to reflect that; or you're ordering a companion monument for two people.
014. There's No Wrong Answer: Both flat and upright headstones serve the same fundamental purpose: creating a permanent, dignified place of memory. The right choice is the one that respects the cemetery's requirements, honors the person appropriately, and feels right to the family. Whatever you choose, what matters most is that it's chosen with care.

Frequently Asked Questions

At Eternity Headstones, we offer a diverse range of headstones, including classic upright monuments, flat markers, slant markers, and custom-designed memorials. Each type is crafted with care to ensure a lasting and respectful tribute to your loved one.

Choosing the right headstone involves considering the size, style, and material that best honor your loved one’s memory. Factors to consider include cemetery regulations, desired inscriptions, and personal design preferences. Our team is here to help guide you through the selection process to ensure a fitting and meaningful tribute. For personalized assistance, reach out to us at sales@eternityheadstones.com.

Our headstones are crafted from premium granite, marble, and bronze materials. Each material is selected for its durability, beauty, and ability to withstand the elements, ensuring a lasting memorial that stands the test of time.

To maintain your headstone, regular cleaning with mild soap and water is recommended. Avoid abrasive materials or harsh chemicals that could damage the surface. For stone headstones, keep them free of debris and periodically inspect them for signs of wear. Follow any specific care instructions provided to keep your headstone in excellent condition.

Yes, we specialize in custom headstones tailored to your unique specifications. Whether you have a specific design in mind or need assistance creating a personalized tribute, our team can craft a headstone that reflects the individuality of your loved one. From custom engravings to unique shapes and sizes, we are dedicated to providing a meaningful and distinctive memorial.

Eternity Headstones stands out for its commitment to quality and craftsmanship. We combine traditional artistry with modern techniques to create headstones that meet the highest durability and aesthetic appeal standards. Our focus on environmental responsibility means we use sustainable materials and ethical production practices. Additionally, our dedication to customer satisfaction ensures a seamless purchasing experience and reliable support.

Ordering from Eternity Headstones is simple through our easy-to-navigate website. Select the type and size of the headstone you need, then proceed to checkout. We offer various shipping options to suit your needs, and our customer support team is available to assist with any questions. For help with your order, contact us at sales@eternityheadstones.com.

If you experience any issues with your headstone, such as damage or an improper fit, please contact our customer support team at sales@eternityheadstones.com as soon as possible. We are committed to resolving any problems promptly, including offering repairs, replacements, or adjustments to ensure your headstone meets your expectations. For more details, visit our Returns/Refund Policy Page.

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