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Types of Headstones: A Complete Guide to Every Style

MAY 20, 2024

Choosing a headstone is one of the most personal decisions a family can make. It's a lasting tribute to someone you love, and it will stand for generations. Yet when most people start looking, they quickly realize there are more options than they ever expected — upright stones, flat markers, slants, pillows, ledgers, and more.

This guide breaks down every main type of headstone, what makes each one distinct, and what to consider before you decide.

01. Upright Headstones: Upright headstones — sometimes called monuments or die stones — are the classic, vertical markers you picture when you think of a cemetery. They stand anywhere from 18 to 36 inches tall (or taller), and they're mounted on a separate base or foundation.

They offer the most surface area for engraving, which means more room for epitaphs, portraits, symbols, and custom artwork. Because of their size, they're generally the most visible option in any cemetery setting.

03. Single Upright Headstones: Designed for one person, these are the most common choice for individual graves. They come in a range of sizes and shapes — standard rectangles, curved tops, arch tops, and specialty silhouettes like hearts or teardrops.
04. Companion Upright Headstones: These are wider markers designed to memorialize two people — most often spouses or life partners — on a single stone. Both names, dates, and personal details are engraved side by side. Companion stones offer a beautiful way to honor a shared life.
05. Flat Headstones and Ground-Level Markers: Flat markers lie flush with the ground, or just slightly above it. Many cemeteries — especially military cemeteries and newer memorial parks — require flat markers because they create a uniform, easy-to-maintain appearance.

Don't mistake simplicity for lack of dignity. A well-crafted flat marker in polished granite looks elegant and timeless. They're also typically more affordable than upright monuments.

07. Flush Markers: These sit completely level with the grass, making lawn maintenance easy. They're standard in most veterans' cemeteries and are widely used across the country.
08. Bevel Markers: A slight variation: bevel markers are slightly thicker at the back than the front, giving them a very subtle slant. This angle catches light differently and makes inscriptions easier to read.
09. Slant Headstones: Slant markers are an appealing middle ground between upright and flat. They stand at an angle — roughly 45 degrees — which means they're highly visible, easy to read without bending down, and don't require as deep a foundation as a tall upright monument.

They work especially well for families who want something more distinctive than a flat marker but prefer a lower profile than a full upright stone.

011. Pillow Headstones: Named for their rounded, pillow-like shape, these markers have a curved top surface that gives them a softer appearance. They sit low to the ground and are often used as a gentle, less formal alternative to upright headstones.

Pillow markers are a popular choice for children's memorials, though they're used for people of all ages. Their curved face provides a good engraving surface for names, dates, and small designs.

013. Ledger Stones: A ledger stone covers the entire burial plot — essentially a large, flat slab placed over the grave. They're more common in older European-style cemeteries but are still available at many memorial parks.

Ledger stones offer generous engraving space and an impressive visual presence. Full ledgers cover the complete grave, while half ledgers cover just the top half of the plot.

015. Unique and Custom Shapes: Beyond standard styles, many headstone suppliers now offer custom silhouettes — hearts, crosses, teardrops, wings, books, and more. These custom shapes allow families to choose a form that reflects the personality or faith of the person being honored.

Custom-shaped stones often take longer to produce, but for families seeking something truly individual, the result is worth it.

017. What Type Is Right for You?: Before deciding, check with the cemetery. Most have specific rules about allowable sizes, types, and materials. Once you know what's permitted, consider:

Visibility and presence — how prominent do you want the memorial to be? Budget — flat markers are typically the most affordable; upright monuments with custom engravings cost more. Personalization — upright stones offer the most space for artwork, portraits, and longer inscriptions. Maintenance — flat and slant markers are generally easier to maintain over time.

There's no single right answer. The right headstone is the one that feels true to the person it honors.

020. Final Thoughts: Taking the time to understand your options makes the decision feel less overwhelming. Whether you choose a classic upright monument, a simple flat marker, or something completely custom, you're creating a permanent, meaningful place for memory and reflection.

Frequently asked questions

At Eternity Headstones, we offer a diverse range of headstones, including classic upright monuments, flat markers, slant markers, and custom-designed memorials. Each type is crafted with care to ensure a lasting and respectful tribute to your loved one.

Choosing the right headstone involves considering the size, style, and material that best honor your loved one’s memory. Factors to consider include cemetery regulations, desired inscriptions, and personal design preferences. Our team is here to help guide you through the selection process to ensure a fitting and meaningful tribute. For personalized assistance, reach out to us at sales@eternityheadstones.com.

Our headstones are crafted from premium granite, marble, and bronze materials. Each material is selected for its durability, beauty, and ability to withstand the elements, ensuring a lasting memorial that stands the test of time.

To maintain your headstone, regular cleaning with mild soap and water is recommended. Avoid abrasive materials or harsh chemicals that could damage the surface. For stone headstones, keep them free of debris and periodically inspect them for signs of wear. Follow any specific care instructions provided to keep your headstone in excellent condition.

Yes, we specialize in custom headstones tailored to your unique specifications. Whether you have a specific design in mind or need assistance creating a personalized tribute, our team can craft a headstone that reflects the individuality of your loved one. From custom engravings to unique shapes and sizes, we are dedicated to providing a meaningful and distinctive memorial.

Eternity Headstones stands out for its commitment to quality and craftsmanship. We combine traditional artistry with modern techniques to create headstones that meet the highest durability and aesthetic appeal standards. Our focus on environmental responsibility means we use sustainable materials and ethical production practices. Additionally, our dedication to customer satisfaction ensures a seamless purchasing experience and reliable support.

Ordering from Eternity Headstones is simple through our easy-to-navigate website. Select the type and size of the headstone you need, then proceed to checkout. We offer various shipping options to suit your needs, and our customer support team is available to assist with any questions. For help with your order, contact us at sales@eternityheadstones.com.

If you experience any issues with your headstone, such as damage or an improper fit, please contact our customer support team at sales@eternityheadstones.com as soon as possible. We are committed to resolving any problems promptly, including offering repairs, replacements, or adjustments to ensure your headstone meets your expectations. For more details, visit our Returns/Refund Policy Page.

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